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## **`THE HONOURABLE MR. JUSTICE SATHISH NINAN`**
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AGAINST THE JUDGMENT DATED 23.07.2014 IN OP NO.2 OF
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## **`APPELLANTS/PETITIONERS:`**
- **`1 BINDHU AGED 42 YEARS, D/O.OMANA, R/A.'KARTHIKA',KOlLAM WARD, PANMANA VILLAGE, KARUNAGAPALLY TALUK, KOLLAM DISTRICT`**
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2DURGADAS
AGED 19 YEARS, S/O.RAJENDRAN,
R/A.'KARTHIKA',KOlLAM WARD,
PANMANA VILLAGE, KARUNAGAPALLY TALUK,
KOLLAM DISTRICT
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3GOURI
AGED 11 YEARS, D/O.RAJENDRAN,
R/A.'KARTHIKA',KOLLAM WARD,
PANMANA VILLAGE, KARUNAGAPALLY TALUK,
KOLLAM DISTRICT(MINOR THIRD RESPONDENT REP BY
THE FIRST RESPONDENT BEING THE GUARDIAN AND NEXT
FRIEND)
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## **`BY ADV SRI.JOHNSON GOMEZ`**
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RAJENDRAN
S/O.KARUNAKARAN PUTHEN PURAYIL FROM REVATHIYIL,
NADAVARATHU CHERRY,
CHAVARA THEKKUMBHAGOM VILLAGE,
KARUNAGAPPALLY, NOW R/A PUTHEN PURAYIL,
KULANGARA BHAGOM, CHAVARA P O,
PIN-NO 691583, KOLLAM
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THIS MATRIMONIAL APPEAL HAVING BEEN FINALLY HEARD ON
19.03.2025, ALONG WITH MAT.APPEAL NO.1159/2014, THE COURT
ON 10.04.2025 DELIVERED THE FOLLOWING:
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## **`IN THE HIGH COURT OF KERALA AT ERNAKULAM`**
## **`PRESENT`**
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THE HONOURABLE MR. JUSTICE SATHISH NINAN
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THE HONOURABLE MRS. JUSTICE SHOBA ANNAMMA EAPEN
THURSDAY, THE 10[TH] DAY OF APRIL 2025 / 20TH CHAITHRA, 1947
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AGAINST THE JUDGMENT DATED 23.07.2014 IN OP(HMA) NO.1
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## **`APPELLANT/PETITIONER:`**
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BINDHU, AGED 42 YEARS, DAUGHTER OF OMANA,
‘KARTHIKA',KOLAMWARD,PANMANA VILLAGE,
KARUNAGAPPALLY TALUK,KOLLAM DISTRICT
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BY ADV SRI.JOHNSON GOMEZ
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RAJENDRAN, S/O.KARUNAKARAN PUTHEN PURAYIL FROM
REVATHIYIL NADAVARATHU CHERRY,CHAVARA
THEKKUMBHAGOM VILLAGE, KARUNAGAPPALLY, NOW
RESIDING AT PUTHEN PURAYIL, KULANGARA BHAGOM,
CHAVARA P.O,PIN NO 691 583,KOLLAM
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## **`BY ADV SMT.MINI GANGADHARAN`**
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THIS MATRIMONIAL APPEAL HAVING BEEN FINALLY HEARD ON
19.03.2025, ALONG WITH MAT.APPEAL No.1146/2014, THE COURT
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## **`J U D G M E N T [Mat.Appeal Nos.1146/2014, 1159/2014]`**
## **`Shoba Annamma Eapen, J.`**
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The wife is the appellant in both the appeals.
Mat.Appeal No.1146 of 2014 and Mat.Appeal No.1159 of
2014 arise from the common judgment in O.P.No.2 of
2013 and O.P.(HMA) No.1 of 2013 on the files of the
Family Court, Chavara for recovery of her gold
ornaments and cash, and for divorce.
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2.For the sake of convenience, the parties are
referred to as ‘husband’ and ‘wife’.
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3.The marriage between the parties was
solemnised on 23.03.1992. Two children were born in
their wedlock on 10.09.1994 and 08.02.2003
respectively. According to the wife, at the time of
marriage she was given 35 sovereigns of gold ornaments
and a sum of ₹2.5 lakhs as patrimony. She claimed that
a gold chain weighing 4 sovereigns and one ring
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weighing 1 sovereign was given to the husband and one
bangle weighing 1 sovereign was given to the husband’s
mother, totaling to 6 sovereigns. She alleged that the
gold ornaments and patrimony were misappropriated by
the husband. She was subjected to cruelty demanding
more dowry by the husband and his mother. She alleged
that the patrimony of ₹2.5 Lakhs was misappropriated
by the husband for the purpose of renovating the
building. She further alleged that out of 10 cents of
property belonging to the wife, she was forced to
convey 5 cents of property to the husband as a pre-
condition for conjugal relationship. She contended
that the husband was a drunkard, and became violent
when intoxicated and demanded for more dowry. He used
to bring his friends to the house and the wife was
forced to serve food to them. Thereafter, the husband
was sent to gulf by spending ₹50,000/- by the wife’s
father. Later the husband returned from gulf after
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losing his job. On 20.05.2006, the wife and the
children were forcibly thrown out of the matrimonial
home and the husband failed to take them back home.
Thus the wife filed petitions for divorce, for return
of gold ornaments and money and for past and future
maintenance.
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4.According to the husband, no dowry was
demanded by him from the wife’s family. He also denied
the entrustment of her assets. He alleged that the
wife was having only 20 sovereigns of gold ornaments
at the time of marriage and that the gold ornaments
were in her own custody. He further contended that
since the wife’s brother was in need of money, the
husband had parted with ₹15,000/-, and that is how 5
cents of property was conveyed in his name. He also
contended that he renovated the old building in the
property by availing loans from the bank. He contended
that he did not misappropriate her gold ornaments or
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money. He submitted that he is still ready and willing
to maintain the wife and his children.
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5.The Family Court, after appreciation of
entire evidence, dismissed O.P.(HMA) No.1 of 2013 and
partly allowed O.P.No.2 of 2013 by allowing the wife
to recover only 26 sovereigns of gold ornaments and
also directed the husband to pay monthly maintenance
of ₹1,000/- to the wife and ₹1,500/- each to the minor
children. Aggrieved by the same, the wife has come up
with the appeals.
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6.We have heard the learned Counsels on both
sides.
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7.The evidence in this case consists of Exts.A1
to A5 and Ext.B1 to B10. PW1 – the wife, CPW1 – the
husband and CPW2 – Chandradas - Building contractor
were also examined.
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the dismissal of the petition for divorce. The
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marriage between the parties was solemnised on
23.03.1992 and two children were born in their wedlock
in the year 1994 and 2003 respectively. The wife has
made allegations of cruelty against the husband
including ill-treatment and manhandling. It was
alleged that the husband was a drunkard and he used to
bring his unethical friends to the matrimonial home
and also forced his wife to serve food to them. It was
also alleged that the husband was a spendthrift and he
had misappropriated her gold ornaments and patrimony
of ₹2.5 Lakhs. Due to the disruption in the marital
life, the relationship got estranged and they were
living separately since 26.05.2006. Except the oral
evidence of PW1, no attempt was made by the wife to
examine any witness or to adduce any evidence to prove
the cruelty against the husband. However, she had
testified that she had been manhandled after
intoxication of liquor as well as she was abused and
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assaulted in front of his friends. No love and
affection was shown by the husband towards the wife.
She deposed that her life could be in danger if they
continue to stay together. For a wife, it would be
very difficult, mentally and physically to move on
with a husband who is a drunkard, and also does not
show any care, love and affection towards the wife.
The husband had denied all the allegations levelled
against him. The fact that since 2008, they are living
separately is not disputed.
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9.Cruelty is a course of conduct by the
offending spouse which makes it impossible for the
complaining spouse to live with him. The parties enter
the marital relationship with many expectations. If
something goes wrong against the expectations, it
would be difficult for the other spouse to continue
with the marital relationship, and it amounts to
cruelty in matrimonial life.In[2007 (1) KHC 9491
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that physical violence is not essential to constitute
cruelty and a consistent course of conduct inflicting
immeasurable mental agony and torture may constitute
cruelty. The wife had deposed that she had been
continuously put to immeasurable mental agony and
torture by the husband. It is true that the wife has
not examined anybody to prove the allegation of
cruelty by the husband.
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10.The circumstances in each family life will be
different. It may not be possible for everyone to lead
evidence of cruelty by the husband. The finding of the
Family Court in the original petition is that, it was
only an ordinary tear and wear of the family and there
had been no serious issues between the spouse, which
does not appear to be correct. If there was no serious
issue the wife would have certainly joined the
husband. In the present case, there is irretrievable
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break down also. The parties were living separately
from 2008 onwards. They do not have a case that there
was cohabitation after 2008. Refusal to live with the
spouse also amounts to cruelty. InRakesh Raman v.
Kavitha [2023 SCC OnLine SC 497], it has been held
that though in a given case, cruelty as a fault may
not be attributable to one party alone and hence,
despite irretrievable breakdown of marriage, keeping
the parties together amounts to cruelty on both sides.
Similarly, inShilpa Sailesh v. Varun Sreenivasan
[2023 SCC OnLine SC 544], it has been held that where
there is an irretrievable breakdown of marriage, then,
dissolution of marriage is the only solution. In a
recent decision of the apex court in Rajib Kumar vs.
Sushmita Saha[Civil Appeal No.5454 of 2023] [2023
LiveLaw (SC) 727], it has been held that keeping the
parties together despite irretrievable breakdown of
marriage amounts to cruelty on both sides.
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11.Considering the above facts, we find that for
more than 15 years they are living separately and
there is no chance of reunion. The emotional bond has
weakened and the marital bond has become strained. In
such circumstances, if a decree of divorce is not
granted, the parties would be forced to endure
unnecessary suffering, misery and emotional distress.
Therefore, while concurring with the Family Court in
its finding on the particular nature of cruelty
alleged, we are of the opinion that on the other
findings supra, a decree for divorce is liable to be
granted. Hence, we are inclined to allow O.P.(HMA)
No.1 of 2013 regarding the dissolution of marriage.
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12.Next we shall consider the claim for return
of gold ornaments and patrimony. According to the
wife, she was given 35 sovereigns of gold ornaments
and her husband was given a gold chain weighing 4
sovereigns and one ring weighing 1 sovereign was given
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to the husband and one bangle weighing 1 sovereign was
given to the husband’s mother, totaling to 6
sovereigns. She claimed that ₹2.5 lakhs was given to
the husband in November 2001 for renovation of the
building and ₹50,000/- was given by her parents to him
in connection with his travel abroad for job.
According to the wife, she has claimed return of 41
sovereigns of gold ornaments. She claimed that she was
having 18 bangles of one sovereign each, two chains of
6 and 4 sovereigns, a necklace weighing 2 sovereign, a
pair of stud of 1 sovereign, two rings weighing 1 ½
sovereigns each. She further claimed a gold chain
weighing 4 sovereigns and one ring weighing 1
sovereign was given to the husband and one bangle
weighing 1 sovereign was given to the husband’s
mother. She also claimed that the gold ornaments were
purchased from one Swaminathan Jewellery. According
to her, ten sovereigns were sold in June 1992 and 25
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sovereigns were taken by the husband in September
1994. In order to substantiate her claim, she relied
on Ext.A1 series photographs and also her own
deposition.
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she had only 20 sovereigns of gold ornaments and that
were in her own custody. He also denies the claim
that he was given a ring and a chain and his mother
was given a bangle. He also contended that the
renovation of the building was done by availing loan
from the bank. Admittedly no bills, estimate or
receipt for the purchase of the gold ornaments were
produced by the wife.
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is seen that the wife was wearing substantial quantity
of gold ornaments. However, it is not discernible from
the photos produced whether she was wearing 35
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it is seen that the husband had pledged gold ornaments
on 06.05.2003. The husband, in the cross examination,
has admitted that her gold ornaments were pledged by
him. From the documents produced, it is clear that he
was in the habit of pledging gold ornaments. Hence it
is only probable that the husband might have utilised
her gold ornaments and misappropriated the same for
his own needs. The claim of the wife that the gold
ornaments were misappropriated by the husband, has to
be believed.
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a perusal of Ext.A1 series of photographs, we are of
the view that the wife might have been wearing atleast
25 sovereigns of gold ornaments. The case of the wife
that 6 sovereigns were given to the husband and his
mother, though denied by the husband, the evidence
adduced by the wife appears to be more reliable.
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16.No proper evidence has been adduced by the
wife to substantiate the claim for payment of ₹2.5
lakhs alleged to have been spent for renovation of the
building and ₹50,000/- towards the expenses for the
husband to go to Gulf. Hence we are not inclined to
grant the claim for recovery of the said amount. The
wife has also claimed right over the property assigned
in favour of the husband. However, no such claim has
been made in the present petition. It is for the wife
to raise claim, if any, in appropriate proceedings.
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17.As regards the claim for maintenance, the
wife had claimed ₹1,500/- each to her and her minor
children. She claimed that the husband is earning
₹10,000/- per month and he is also having business
from which he would be getting ₹10,000/- per month.
She claimed past and future maintenance. The husband
contended that he had been sending maintenance amounts
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to the children @ ₹1,000/- each while he was in the
gulf. He also claimed that he was ready to maintain
his wife and children if they are ready to reside with
him. On a perusal of the evidence adduced, the wife
had deposed that the wife was residing in her own
building and was maintained by her father. The husband
did not adduce any contra evidence to prove that the
wife was having sufficient income to maintain herself.
The Family Court, after consideration of the evidence
on board, has awarded maintenance @ ₹1,000/- per month
to the wife and ₹1,500/- each per month to her minor
children from 12.03.2007 onwards. The Family Court
also awarded a consolidated amount of ₹10,000/- to the
wife and ₹30,000/- to the minor children towards past
maintenance with 6% interest per annum. The said order
passed by the Family Court appears to be just and
reasonable. We do not find any reason to interfere
with the same.
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Accordingly, Mat. Appeal No.1159 of 2014 is
allowed, dissolving the marriage between the appellant
and respondent solemnized on 23.03.1992.
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Mat.Appeal No.1146 of 2014 is partly allowed, by
modifying the impugned judgment and decree of the
Family Court, to the extent of directing the husband
to return to the wife thirty one (31) sovereigns of
gold ornaments or its present market value within one
month from today, in default of which, the wife will
be entitled to realize the same from the husband's
assets, both movables and immovables. In all other
respects the impugned judgment shall stand. No costs.
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